Tonight, I Learnt that The Tears are meant to be the Lubricants of Human Eyes, Not Just Humans but all mammals on the earth other than goats and rabbits. They have a lot to do with our immune system which I guess is like a Kinda Antivirus stuff of our body.
That all makes sense right. It’s very simple stuff that everyone seems to understand. And that’s ok because we believe what we see. Its simple science, outcome of experiments that are most of time unbiased.
But there is something that science can’t understand or maybe it can. Everyone visit a hospital when there is something wrong in their body. Maybe a bone is broken or maybe they have some fever. Doctor treat them, we get medicine and get well. that’s right.
Everybody is so concerned about your health. Not your health exactly it’s your physical health. But for the most part there is something other than this physical health which we never focus on.
Well when you get a fever everyone around is so serious about it and they want you to go to the doctor instantly. sometimes even people pay the bills for you. I mean everyone is so concerned about the physical health.
but Do you know that most of people die because of something that’s in their mind, not their physical health.
And this is obvious, you can measure fever but you cannot measure the pain in their heart. There is no way to measure the stress people face in their life.
All around of world there are more patient of depression and stress disorders, which is not so physical. What cause this. Why this is happening.
All the relatives, all the parents do their best for keeping their children happy and healthy and that’s also physically. Most of the time they don’t even know how there children’s feel. Because they are busy in making decisions about the career, about the future of their kid.
Newborn kid is given love, so much love. So as the kids start to grow up, this love turns into responsibilities and expectations. Parents expect their children to get good marks, to focus on studies.
Well it doesn’t make sense. Does it??
More the kids grow up, more they become lonely. After parents, we met our friends in school. We overcome the loneliness, find love with our friends. But that is not ever lasting.
After Secondary education, we have to focus on our career, on getting a good job, not a good job but a government job. Nobody ask you how you feel anymore. Nobody understand how you feel anymore. Well this brings us to find a life partner. To again be able to love. To be able to be understood. To be able to feel.
Still, the lubricants are always closer to the girls. Girls can be sad. Girls can cry. But the man, boys. They don’t. Because they can’t. That’s what our society have been telling us for thousand of Years. Man don’t cry. Men are strong. Men have to make rough calls.
A men’s eyes can not have those lubricants, to get over the irritants. Everyone talks about womens being weak. And mens being stronger. But then why I find the statistics of number of mens committing suicide are three times greater than the number of women’s every year. Every 40 second 1 person commits suicide. And in 2 Minutes 3 Persons, out of which 2 are the so called Stonger Men.
Everyone talks about the girls suffer. I admit that it’s impossible to imagine the pain of women. But I have this question in my mind. Is it really possible to imagine the stuff that a man faces.
If a man is tronger than a woman, why psychology admit that womens move on more quickly than a man. Even after moving on, only mens face permanent damage in their brain due to that incident. Why depression among men’s is greater than womens.
This confuses me. We are supposed to be the stronger. And all this is not something near to the strong stuff. What should I do. What should every man do. I am really asking everyone this question. Do you really think that man are Stronger or men’s don’t cry.
I don’t know what to say, better everyone say it. I don’t specially means men’s are hurt, I mean that we also have a heart that broke. We also have feelings which are surpessed by the heavy weight of the responsibilities and duties the society assigns us.
Everyone out there needs to be cared, a man or woman, it really doesn’t matter. There is nothing like he is strong and she is vulnerable. Because when you say man is strong. You are making it more difficult, you are isolating them from society, family, even from there own. You are making them believe something that’s not true.
Sooner or later, This Suppression explodes, Either as Anger. Or as Depression and stress which hunt the families till now.
I can’t write anymore but This is not over yet…..